Coaching broke me

The Coaching Industry Broke Me (And I’m Not Mad About It Anymore)

June 27, 20252 min read

Title: The Coaching Industry Broke Me (And I’m Not Mad About It Anymore)


The coaching industry didn’t just drain my bank account.
It drained my voice.

It taught me how to package, pitch, niche down, and speak in soundbites.
It gave me strategies I could recite in my sleep—
but never once asked me if I still recognized myself in the business I was building.

I was a dream client.
A high-achieving, high-masking, high-paying woman with a “good student” complex and a full notebook.

I did everything they said.

Signed up. Showed up. Stayed committed.

And it worked—
until I couldn’t find my damn self in any of it.

That’s when I realized:

I didn’t need more coaching.
I needed more me.

But here’s the part I never said out loud before:

It’s not just about the strategies that didn’t work.
It’s about the ones that did.

Because the ones that “worked” the best
were the ones that taught me how to show up as a version of myself that wasn’t even real.

Not a lie.
Just… filtered.
Palatable.
Marketable.
Mask-on.

And I thought that meant I was doing it right.
Turns out, I was just doing it… trained.

So I stopped.

Stopped performing my power.
Stopped tweaking my voice to match the market.
Stopped asking for permission to rebuild from something real.

And when I did?

I created NeuroFEM™ Juice + UNCoached.

Not as a course.
Not as another program to funnel people into.

But as a way out.

A way back to yourself after years of being coached out of your center.

Because the truth is:

🔹 You’re not hard to coach—you’re just done shrinking.
🔹 You’re not inconsistent—you’re exhausted from filtering.
🔹 You’re not confused—you’re just not visible to yourself inside the brand you built to be “aligned.”

NeuroFEM™ Juice is where you unmask.
UNCoached is how you start again.
Together, they’re not a strategy—they’re a system for remembering who you were before you performed it.

And listen… I’m not mad at the coaching industry anymore.

It taught me something important.

It taught me how easy it is to build success while slowly disappearing inside it.

But I’m not disappearing anymore.

And if you’re done too—
Not done building.
Not done dreaming.
Just done pretending

Start with the truth.

🎯 The “Masking or Me?” Audit + Poster is free.
But what it gives you?
Is priceless.

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We’re done branding from burnout.
This is how we begin again.

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